Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Things we love: What's Up Moms

I'm obsessed.

It started the other day while on a play date with my kids when I referenced a parody video I saw on Facebook about friends without kids. I remember laughing at the video and wanted to watch it again and pulled up Google to find it.

What I discovered was a website about three moms who are passionate about making short, useful videos about life, food and crafts. They call it What's Up Moms.

I started with the friends with no kids video (which I forwarded to my play date friend). Then was directed to a mod podge animal canvas DIY (which I sent to my sister). Then another canvas DIY (which I sent to my friend)... You get the idea.

Before I knew it two hours had passed. And I just wanted more. More videos. More tips. More! More! More!

It turns out that these moms post videos frequently.  Meg posts a new tip related to kids in the kitchen every Monday. Elle posts a vlog about life lessons every Wednesday. And Brooke posts a DIY every Friday.

I'm hooked. I've subscribed to their Facebook page, their YouTube videos, and have added them as a read on my blog so I never miss another video.  

This week I've made mod podge animal canvases with Mya (which are now hanging in her room), made homemade fruit roll ups with Jasper (ok, I burnt the first batch, but both kids still loved them), and have spent hours upon hours learning more useful tips, recipes and DIY projects. I can't wait to go back to the grocery store so I can make Meg's homemade mozzarella sticks - Yum!

I'm obsessed and can't wait for the next video.  Great job What's Up Moms!! Click on my link above to check them out.

Melanie





Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Handmade Memory Quilts

My mom and I have taken the plunge. We've started making memory blankets from old clothes, baby clothes, t-shirts, blankets, bibs, etc. We had 5 orders to get us started and they turned out beautifully.




Please check out more of our work on our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/handmadememoryquilts

And feel free to contact me to make your very own memory quilt!

Enjoy!

Monday, July 28, 2014

The Great Goofy Search

Mya is just like many other kids out there - she's obsessed with Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. She has clothing, shoes, dress up accessories, toys, games, pictures and even a border that runs all around her room that features all 6 of the Mickey characters. She loves them all.

For Christmas this year we made the trip to my mother-in-law's house and we discovered some old toys of my husband's from when he was a little boy. And - Gosh - weren't we surprised when we found a little Goofy figurine.

At first Mya wasn't too keen on Goofy. She would play with her other toys while Goofy was placed in a corner somewhere else. But slowly, Goofy became a part of our lives.

Mya now takes Goofy everywhere. He's swinging next to her on the swings at the park. He eats supper on the table with us every night. Mya gives Goofy a bath when he's dirty, changes his bum and makes sure he's wrapped up snug for his naps. Goofy also comes to the store with us, but she leaves him in the car so we don't lose him in an aisle somewhere. She calls him her baby and she takes very good care of him.

This weekend found us camping at Rowan's Ravine Provincial Park and Goofy was along for the ride. We like to keep Goofy in the camper where he'll be safe, but sometimes Mya takes him out to play. He was watching a movie in Uncle Jon's tent during a rainstorm when they found him under an air mattress. He was discovered on a camp chair watching the fire in the evening. And when bedtime rolled around on our last night there, Roger looked at me and asked: "Where's Goofy"?

Thus began The Great Goofy Search.

It was dark so we searched with flashlights. We searched the field where the kids were playing. We searched all the camp chairs. We looked in the bathrooms and in everyone's tents and campers. Luckily, Mya hadn't napped that day and she fell asleep while waiting for us to find her precious baby. Roger and I searched for over an hour with no luck. Goofy was officially missing.

Goofy has been in our lives for 8 months now and he feels like a part of the family. His yellow shirt, blue coveralls and red shoes - we see them every day. And the thought of never seeing his silly grin again tore us up inside.

The next morning Goofy was the first thing Mya asked about. We tried to down play our search and distracted Mya with the thought of playing at the park while we packed up to leave, but we knew we were in for a long ride if Goofy didn't turn up. But as each family member packed up their sites, the possibility of leaving without Goofy became more and more real.

I walked all around the park and stopped everyone I met to ask if they'd seen Goofy. Maybe another kid had picked him up? I asked the park workers who were cleaning the bathrooms. But no one had seen him. I even went so far as to dump all the recycling out onto the ground and re-bag it all. No Goofy.

When Mya came back from the park, I sucked it up. I told her that Goofy was missing and we were about to leave without him.

Mya would never see Goofy again.

And that's when I heard the cheering that started in my mom's campsite. My sister's arms flew in the air as she shouted "Woo-hoo". My nephew Jacob stood up from the picnic table with a big smile on his face. I looked all around and saw my mom running over - with Goofy in her hand.

In the end Goofy was found under my mom's camper mat. Mya smiled as she took Goofy in her arms and did not let him go until we were home safe and sound. 



Welcome home Goofy. I'm so glad we found you.

Melanie













Saturday, July 5, 2014

Things we love: Co-op's toddler shopping carts

I love grocery shopping. I never, ever make a list and thoroughly enjoy browsing through each aisle to see what I need.

But, shopping has become increasingly difficult with two kids. Enough said.

That is, until I found this:

The Co-op in our city has toddler shopping carts!!

Mya will happily follow behind me filling her cart with all the things we need.Of course, I have to check her cart at the check out. Today I had a box of cookies, an extra head of lettuce, two bottles of body spray and some chicken and onion spice. But she's a great helper and I will gladly take her along on any grocery shop to the Co-op from now on.

Thank you Co-op. You've made my shopping experience a lot brighter :)

Melanie






Friday, July 4, 2014

6 weeks

Maybe I was naive. Maybe I just didn't understand. But I didn't know what it meant to lose a baby until it happened to me.

It was a regular Saturday morning. I was playing in the yard with my kids and chatting with my husband. I was 6 weeks pregnant and could not have been happier in that moment. I want a big family. I want my kids close in age. My life was happening exactly how I wanted it to happen. I was happy. I was writing a blog in my head titled "Welcome to the Jungle." It was the phrase a friend used when we gleefully announced our 3rd baby's pending arrival.

And that's when I felt it. In that moment I knew - I was bleeding.

Some women bleed during their pregnancies. It's a sign telling them to slow down and rest their body. But I've never bled during mine and I knew it was not a good sign.

In the emergency room my doctor confirmed that the baby was alright. He helped me feel calm, but also let me know that if I lost the baby, there was nothing he could do to stop it.

I rested for three days. I cancelled plans. I laid on the couch. I read an entire book on Sunday afternoon. I felt sad as I prepared for what might happen, but as time wore on I had hope that our baby was going to be alright.

But things were not alright. The cramping started on Monday evening and I lost the baby that night. I cried in Roger's arms as I talked about what could have been and what we lost. I fell asleep feeling devastated and empty.

We had announced our pregnancy early. I'm not very good at keeping pregnancy a secret and I always believed the statement that if anything were to happen, I'd rather have the support of everyone knowing than to suffer in silence. But my body? It was built for having babies. It was built for both pregnancy and labour. I am one of the lucky ones. A miscarriage wouldn't happen to me.

Until it did.

As it turns out, 1 in 3 pregnancies end with a miscarriage.

It's the little things that hurt the most. Walking over to look at my daily calendar and seeing that I'd already marked each week of my pregnancy until the end of the year. Now every time I look at it I'm reminded of how far along I should have been. And the biggest hurt is looking at my bare fireplace. The sign I'd hung to tell Roger that we were having a baby has been taken down and although it gave me closure, it's empty look now reminds me of what should still be hanging there. 

I'm glad I'd announced the pregnancy early as the support I received was comforting and helpful. The texts, calls, emails, flowers, cards, gifts and visits - they have meant so much. It made me feel not so alone and it definitely helped to hear from others who'd experienced the same thing. Rachelle - you saved me. I hope you know that. I don't know how I would have gotten through it without you.

Having a miscarriage was absolutely terrible. It broke my heart. I honestly don't think that many people understand what it means or know how difficult it is to be pregnant one minute and not the next, unless you've been through it yourself. And now that I have, I feel sad thinking about my friends who've been there while I blissfully looked the other way. I wish I'd known...but I'm glad I didn't.

I feel blessed to have two beautiful, healthy kids and they've made this loss a little easier on me. Roger, you are my rock and although it was a terrible loss, I'm thankful you were by my side.

Melanie






Campground Review: Duck Mountain

This stop - Duck Mountain (north of Kamsack, SK)
Length of stay - 4 nights
Weather - Rainy with a chance of flood
Campers - 4 (Roger, Melanie, Mya & Jasper)



Privacy
Most campsites were well treed and provided a lot of privacy. Actually, it may have provided too much as the campground was very, very dense and that meant there were limited pathways through the trees to get to other areas. Also, our campsite was so private, we were a good 10 minute walk to the showers - and a 20 minute walk to the closest park.  It was a negative to be so secluded.
Rating: 2 out of 5 stars

Amenities
Duck Mountain boasts lake swimming, parks, hiking trails, boat rentals, horse rides, mini golf and an interpretive centre. We were also able to take in a couple campground events including a magic show, face painting and balloon animals. Unfortunately, due to weather conditions we missed out of the Crafty Campers event that I'm sure Mya would have enjoyed. All in all, the amenities were positive, but they didn't stand out above other campgrounds we've been to before. The lake has a very tiny beach, and the road to get to the boat rentals is extremely congested. There was also only one park in the entire campground (and is not located with the showers, which is odd) and is not anywhere near the actual campsites. It's a hike just to get to the park, or you have to drive. The mini golf and horse rides are a five minute drive from the campground, but there is no biking/walking path to get there. We had to drive to avoid biking with the kids on a main highway. The hiking trails that we did get to experience were great, but due to the rain and flooding, most were washed out and we didn't get to continue. The interpretive centre was small, but a welcome treat to get our little kids to get out of the rain and the mini golf was a fun course. The park at the beach was also large and fun, but with the rain we didn't play on it much.
Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

Campsite
We sprung for luxury camping this trip and paid for electricity, water and sewer. What we didn't realize is that we would be one of the furthest campsites in the park and were a long hike to any services. The bonus was that we didn't need any other services, but when the pipe broke near our campsite and it took an hour to fix, we were left without water in our camper and had to drive to the nearest bathroom. The campsite itself was narrow and due to all the rain, was partially flooded and the ground was very soft. The camp fire also was not moveable, so we were stuck having it in a puddle of water during the rainiest day. We stayed in a section of the campground that was newly expanded and this meant that the road was made of dirt and gravel instead of being paved. On a hot, summer day this might have been alright, but as we camped during a flood, we were constantly covered in mud. Walking our dog was a complete pain. Luckily Mya and I had our rubber boots - and I think Roger will finally cave and buy some for our next trip.
Rating: 2 out of 5 stars

Bathroom/Showers
As we sprung for luxury camping, we didn't have to use the bathroom/shower house. However, I discovered that there was only one bathroom/shower house for all 207 campsites in the Birch section of Duck Mountain. I felt lucky to not have to wait in line for a shower. When I did use the bathroom, it felt clean and was similar to the shower houses found in most provincial campgrounds.
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars


We chose Duck Mountain because Roger had gone there as a kid (although he went to the Manitoba side of Duck Mountain) and remembered really liking it. But, all-in-all, we felt there wasn't anything special about this park to bring us back in the future. And although the park can't be blamed for the amount of flooding, the rain didn't help this particular park to shine. It was a 4 hour drive for us to make it to Duck Mountain and in the future we would prefer to stick closer to home. We did make the most of our trip and were able to go on some hikes, a boat ride, bike rides and a lot of walks and we really enjoyed being stuck together in all the rain :)

Melanie





Thursday, July 3, 2014

Campground Review: Nickle Lake

With many, many camping trips planned this summer with our new-to-us camper, I've decided to keep track of our favourites and not so favourites.

First stop - Nickle Lake (two minutes outside of Weyburn, SK)
Length of stay - One week
Weather - Cloudy and rain with one day of sun
Campers - 9 in two sites (5 adults, 4 kids)



Privacy
The campground was seriously lacking in privacy as there are minimal trees (if any) separating campsites. The oddest moment of the trip for me was when I opened up my blinds and found a man at the next campsite over staring at me through my window from his lawn chair. I quickly shut the blinds and kept them that way for the remainder of the week. Creepy!! It was ideal to have minimal privacy separating our campsite from the other in our group, but a little privacy is needed between neighbouring sites regardless.
Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

Amenities
Nickle Lake boasts lake swimming, kiddie splash pool, boating, fishing, mini golf, parks and ball diamonds. They also have a cafe on the beach for a welcome treat. (Unfortunately for us, the cafe doesn't open until July and as we were camping in late-June it was not an option for us. Boy, were we disappointed!) We also picked a very rainy week to go camping and were not able to spend much time at any of these locations. The kiddie splash pool was also not open for the season yet and the park at that specific spot is in desperate need of a makeover. The fishing and boating dock as well as the sandy beach were beautiful and I wish we'd had more sunny days so we could have enjoyed them more.
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

Campsites
They were unexpectedly long and provided ample room for campers, tents, boats, vehicles, etc. They were also all grass. Having an all grass campsite seemed odd at first as most are gravel, but it was a pleasant surprise since the week we chose to go camping found us soaked with rain.  Gravel campsites would have left us, and especially our dog, soaked with mud, but Nickle just left us wet. At least we were able to stay clean in all the rain. An added bonus was that Jasper was still crawling and the grass did not leave his knees full of cuts and scrapes. I also appreciated that the fire pit was moveable. We were able to rearrange its location based on the wind and rain of the day.
Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Bathroom/Showers
We were steps away from the showers (which were free), but we found the fan inside to be extremely loud and one shower didn't work. It wasn't a factor though as it was a very quiet week and we were usually the only ones in there at one time.That being said, they were not cleaned very well.
Rating: 3 out of 5 stars


Overall we had a nice trip to Nickle Lake. It was nice to stay close to home and I appreciated being at a regional campground because they are smaller in size and you can bike or walk to every amenity. We will definitely consider camping here again - and we will hope for better weather!

Melanie